According to the Book of Genesis 39:1–20 Potiphar's wife tried to seduce Joseph, who ELUDED her advances. As Joseph REPELLED her attempt to lure him into her bed, she grabbed him by his coat: "And it came to pass about this time, that Joseph went into the house to do his business; and there was none of the men of the house there within. And she caught him by his garment, saying, Lie with me: and he left his garment in her hand, and FLED, and GOT “HIMSELF OUT."
How much more difficult could this have gotten for Joseph!
1. She had been flirting with him. but he ELUDED her advances. In other words didn't engage.
2. As if that wasn't enough, he came into work to find her in bed.
3. She literally grabbed him to LURE him into her bed. But he RAN!
If this is not a clear example of what a man should do in the midst of temptation, nothing is. Needless to say,
In God’s eyes, there is no excuse for infidelity; whether your spouse is too fat, too skinny, doesn't keep a clean house, doesn't cook, doesn't like intimacy and the list goes on and on; it has nothing to do with any of that. It has everything to do with having principles and good moral standards (regardless of being a Christian or not). With that in place, they too would have the ability to Elude, Repel, flee and get themselves out!